repository: 06/23/26

Yi 55: TAWIMD 7: re my sense she is in a Loveless marriage

it's the elements in a few of the dreams.

Yi 54: on knowing there is no Relationship without Honda Knot

meant "there is NO Relationship..."

Hilary Barrett:

"To experience Integrity is like coming face to face with your real self – plain, simple and unadorned. To have Integrity is to be whole, at one with yourself and with reality. It means being honest about your own capacities, holding yourself in creative balance with your world and not exaggerating the importance of your role. This ‘know thyself’ hexagram can also mean realism about your own capacities, as well as your own importance in the greater scheme of things.

These qualities enable the noble one to bring whatever work presents itself to completion. Since she is not overly full of herself, she has space for the real world; she isn't hampered by an excess or by a lack of confidence. Since she isn't caught up in a personal story, and doesn't identify her work with her worth, she is free to do what needs to be done and move on."

Yi 53: on knowing Veronica is the "44 Woman"

related

Yi 52: what makes Veronica seemingly Impossible re Relationship

see "defies common sense" below, as that is what relates to my use of "seemingly impossible."

Hilary Barrett:

" 'Coupling' means meeting, and also a woman who gives birth to the heir – the powerful woman. She represents someone (of either sex) or something with a profound and mysterious power to attract you, to take over, and to change everything. She moves you, re-energizes and gives birth to new life.

The oracle warns you not to take the woman – not to try to seize control of her, and not to marry her. Do not imagine that you can bring her under control, assimilate her into your life and continue as before. Such a marriage cannot last. This woman has more power than any system where you might try to contain her. She might bring desires that undermine a well-balanced life, or an irruption of feeling into a realm of abstractions, or chance and irrationality to threaten a logical, ordered mind.

Perhaps you will stand fast and resist this power's attraction. Perhaps you will embrace her briefly and let your life be transformed by the encounter. But you cannot take her or marry her."